First-timer guide
How a night actually works.
Japan's adult venues run on rules most visitors never see written down. Here's what to expect, in order.
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Pick a venue that says yes
Start with venues marked Confirmed — their own website says foreign guests are welcome. Venues marked Reported may still turn you away at the door.
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Book, or just walk in
Many venues take bookings by phone, LINE or WhatsApp; some only accept non-Japanese speakers in person. Yoshiwara venues usually send a free car to Minowa, Ueno or Asakusa station once you book.
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Pay in cash, up front
Expect to pay the full course price at reception. Several venues publish a separate, higher price for international guests — often ¥10,000 more.
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Show ID if asked
Bring your passport. Some venues check nationality at reception or require ID from first-time guests.
Five phrases that open doors.
| Say | Japanese | Means |
|---|---|---|
| Gaikokujin OK desu ka? | 外国人OKですか? | Are foreigners OK? |
| Yoyaku shitai desu. | 予約したいです。 | I'd like to book. |
| Ikura desu ka? | いくらですか? | How much is it? |
| Kādo tsukaemasu ka? | カード使えますか? | Can I pay by card? |
| Eigo daijōbu desu ka? | 英語大丈夫ですか? | Is English OK? |
House rules everywhere.
- No photos. Not of the entrance, the street or the staff. It's the fastest way to be refused.
- Arrive sober. Visibly drunk guests are turned away.
- If you're refused, leave politely. Venues decide at the door, and arguing only makes it harder for the next visitor.
- Only use licensed venues. Street touts in Kabukicho and Roppongi steer visitors to overpriced bars. Walk past them.